Some times, some things, are just not meant to be. Aligning energetically is the key

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Some times, some things, are just not meant to be. Aligning energetically is the key.


Last month we explored magical thinking and how it is important to understand the role that our spiritual effort plays in creating reality. This month we’ll look at why sometimes, despite sustained effort and action, we simply can’t manifest what we want. It’s all about aligning energetically with our true selves and our destinies.

There’s an idea out there that’s been made popular by concepts such as “The Secret” that in a limitless Universe anything is possible. While from a philosophical perspective that may be true on a practical level it isn’t. It’s possible to manifest just about anything we’re meant to. The more a desire aligns with our destiny, the more likely we’re able to create it. Fulfilling our destiny is the reason we came to the planet. To understand more about your destiny and it’s implications click here.

It comes down to this, if what you’re trying to create isn’t in alignment with your chosen destiny the momentum of the Universe will be working against you. We all came here to fulfill our destiny agreements and they will always take priority in our lives. The energy that is responsible for ensuring that we are in alignment with them is called Ori. You can read more about the Ori here You can read more about the Ori here.

One of the main functions of the Ori is to ensure that you are aligning as deeply as possible with your destiny path. It’s not that your Ori will prevent you from making mistakes. Learning and growth often come from errors. Ori will also not prevent you from doing as you please regardless of alignment. We always have free will. But, when we appeal to higher energies to assist us in creating something that request must go though our Ori. Our Ori will block it if it doesn’t support our destiny.

If you’ve: appealed to spirit; created an emotionally compelling vision; engaged with passion; and taken action, but are still not able to get the result your looking for then it’s time to consider whether it is in alignment with your path. The best way to do that is to work directly with your Ori. Sit in quiet space and say a prayer to your Ori. Reach out if you’d like me to send you one. Ask for clarification and guidance regarding what you’re trying to accomplish. Approach it with an open mind and heart and with a sincere desire to understand. You may discover the reason you’re unable to manifest what you want and need to be ready to accept that.

We’ll use looking for a romantic relationship as an example again because it’s the area most people get stuck in. There are a couple of things to consider when attempting to create a flow to Mr. Right. The first is whether this is the time for you to be entering into a new relationship with all of its delightful distraction. The second is wether the right guy is in your life yet.

If you focus on a specific person things get even more complicated. Not only does the relationship have to align with you, but it has to work for his destiny path too. The chances of all of that being in place aren’t that great.

Regardless of what you’re looking for Universal support is only available if it is deeply aligned with who you are, and where you’ve chosen to go in this lifetime. Expending spiritual energy on anything else will be exhausting and likely set you back in your growth.

I’ve been a full-time life coach, and mentor, since 2007. I’ve helped clients: find new careers or enrich the ones they’re in; discover new love or renew a fading relationship; deal with the stresses of day to day living, and of course deepen into the spiritual dimension of life..